True to my word, I’ve been taking a break and focusing on other things for the time being. First up was the local traditional music orchestra. They meet once a month to rehearse. I didn’t get in touch with the contact person until after the February practice. I couldn’t make March because it conflicted with my St. Patrick’s Day commitments. Then April was canceled. And then I couldn’t make May because it was the same day as my nephew’s First Communion. Now I can’t make June because I’ll be out of town visiting my brother that weekend. Always something. But I’ll make it there eventually. In the meantime I’ve obtained the book of music and I’ve been familiarizing mysef with the tunes. I’m also planning on hitting the open mic circuit again over the summer.
Next up was the gym. I’d been considering joining one for some time. While my job and my dancing keep me in relatively good shape and I’ve been doing some workouts at home, I wanted to get serious with it and one of my friends volunteered to be my gym buddy. It took us a couple of weeks before we finally got started, but we’re now going three times a week and both of us already feel a huge difference in our lives. He says it’s even helped him drastically cut down on his smoking and drinking. I’ve also noticed a nice change in my body. Turns out I respond well to serious weightlifting.
Work is in full swing now and I’m busy prospecting to expand my customer base. I dumped my far-flung (and most annoying) customers this year, and not only am I working to replace them but to add more on top of that. So far I’ve picked up two new ones. Good stuff. I still have more leisure time than I had planned on so I’ve been using it to go on hikes and explore parks and preserves that have been on my to-do list for a long time.
In the middle of all of this I actually landed another first date. I had left my OKC profile up just in case, and sure enough some girl came across it and sent me a message. She found me interesting and I was intrigued by her as well. If she wanted to meet me then I wasn’t going to turn her down. However I met her for brunch and found I just wasn’t that into her. I didn’t feel we had much in common after all. When she asked me afterwards if I wanted to go somewhere else, I said I had to meet up with a friend who was visiting from out of town (which I did). We made tentative plans for the next weekend, but I never followed up and neither did she.
And there’s another reason why I didn’t get back to her…
Because without planning on it, without expecting it, without trying to…
I met someone.
First dates: 36
Second dates: 4
Third dates: 2
Stood up: 2
First kisses: 3