I went on Facebook to send New Girl a message. However, when I clicked on her profile I noticed something really odd: She had unfriended me. Dafuq…? I gaped at my computer screen, racking my brain for any possible reason why. She was all smiles and hugs when we parted ways, and expressed a clear interest in getting together again. So I sent her the message as originally planned, without mentioning my peculiar discovery:
“Hey! I had fun on Sunday and I can’t wait to get together again. In the meantime I’ve come up with a couple of ideas I wanted to float past you… like doing [this] at the beginning of the dance instead, and when we get to [this part of the music] we can do [such and such]. What do you think? You wanna give those a try?”
And I just left it at that. Her reply came through a few minutes later:
“No. I’ll do it by myself.”
Definitely had a bug up her ass about something. What, though?
“Um… okay. Is something wrong?”
Apparently. Because her next move was to block me on Facebook entirely. So it looks like whatever the problem was will forever remain a mystery. This only reinforces this niggling feeling that I’m unwittingly saying or doing something to turn girls off and to provoke these kinds of reactions. Except I don’t know what I possibly could have done this time.
So that’s that, I guess.