I’ve logged into OKC sporadically since the beginning of the year, and it’s been that long since I’ve messaged anyone. Honestly, it would be much easier to start conversations if girls wrote a little more besides “message me if you want to know more” or “just get to know me.” This seems be a growing trend on the site. It’s getting harder to find a decent profile I can really sink my teeth into.

Then you have the girls that write “I’m not going to bother filling this out because nobody reads these things anyway they just look at your pictures.” I don’t understand this. Aren’t you aiming for the guys that do read your profile?  But instead you’re just going to settle for the ones that only message you because of your pictures? That makes absolutely no sense to me.

This isn’t to say I haven’t gotten a few nibbles on my own profile. Three messages came in from three different girls:

First one said “hey” and nothing else. I didn’t bother writing back.

Second one said, “so what do u do for a living?” Between the grammar fail and the profile-reading fail, I gave this one a pass too.

Third one said “hey there, handsome…” This one I responded to, of course:

“If I didn’t know any better, I’d say you were hitting on me!” I got a “lol” in response to that. I wasn’t sure where to go from there, and I got the impression she didn’t have much else to say either.  And that was that.

So that’s it for the OKC roundup. However, I do have a couple of girls that keep showing up in my visitors list over and over again. Neither one has messaged me yet, and I have a rather distinctive profile picture so I highly doubt they are clicking on me by accident. I was wondering what anyone makes of this?